Erectile Dysfunction Counselling

Personalized Erectile Dysfunction Counselling That is Judgment-free and Clinically Proven to Help Reduce ED

Erectile Dysfunction Happens to One in Three Men at Some Point in Their Lives

While it may feel lonely and isolating, erectile dysfunction (ED) is incredibly common. And in most cases, there are erectile dysfunction treatments that are more impactful and longer lasting than taking that “little blue pill.”

What is Erectile Dysfunction?

Erectile dysfunction is the inability to achieve or maintain an erection. Sometimes ED is caused by an underlying medical condition like diabetes, cardiovascular conditions, or prostate cancer treatments. But ED is often caused by a mix of physical, mental, and relationship factors.

You Don’t Have to Live With Erectile Dysfunction

ED can disrupt your sense of self, emotional well-being, and relationships. But it does not have to be something you simply live with.  

By better understanding the condition, your body, mind, and behaviours, you can get to the heart of what may have caused ED, address these root causes, and return to the happy and healthy sex life you deserve.

Tri Health Clinic Erectile Dysfunction Counselling

At Tri Health Clinic, we understand that erectile dysfunction may not strictly be a physical concern. That is why we take a more holistic approach to sex therapy, addressing mental, emotional, and relationship factors, as well as physical health factors, that contribute to your sexual health and well-being. 

We base our treatments on four major principles (education, self knowledge, changing behaviours, and tracking change), tailoring each to meet your specific personal needs.

We focus on education, identifying and working through sexual myths that may be holding you back from a truly gratifying and fulfilling sex life. And while erectile dysfunction is definitely not your “fault,” getting beyond it requires understanding who you are. Remember, you cannot change what you do not acknowledge or understand.  

Next, we will identify and explore how you can strengthen your skillset, develop emotional and interpersonal skills you may be missing, and help you let go of the behaviours and coping strategies that may no longer be serving you.  

Constantly worrying about whether or not you are “cured” or “healed” can actually take out of the important work you are trying to do. Using questionnaires, we will keep track of changes and progress for you, working with you to ensure you reach your therapy goals.

Erectile Dysfunction Resources

Here’s How Tri Health Clinic Can Help Erectile Dysfunction 

  • We can help you identify, process, and overcome the root causes of your ED
  • We can help you understand yourself, highlighting your strengths, so you can tackle the parts you are less fond of
  • We can work with you and your partner to address issues or concerns in the relationship that play a contributing role
  • We can help you change behaviours and thoughts that are not serving you or your sex life

Download the Tri Health Clinic's Free eBook

Discover the key to optimal sexual health with our free ebook! Packed with expert advice and practical tips, this comprehensive guide will empower you to take control of your sexual well-being. Download now and embark on a journey towards a fulfilling and vibrant intimate life.

The Sexual Response Cycle Handout

All the information from our eBook compressed into a bite-sized version.

Download the Tri Health Clinic's Free Sensate Focus Guide

Sensate Focus is a therapeutic technique that promotes intimacy and connection by emphasizing non-sexual touch and exploration, allowing couples to enhance their sensual experiences and deepen their emotional bond. Download it directly here.


Confidence and Joy as Keys to Great Sex Life

Book Recommendations

The new male sexuality: The Truth about Men, Sex, and Pleasure.

The New Male Sexuality addresses the most urgent questions of men today–and of the women who love them.  Bernie Zilbergeld reports findings from his twenty years as a psychologist specializing in human sexuality, as well as those other experts in the field, and shares his own and his clients’ experiences.  the result is the most comprehensive guide ever to enhancing desire and arousal, focusing on pleasure rather than performance, and keeping sex exciting and fulfilling.

Clear, comprehensive, witty, and refreshingly realistic, The New Male Sexuality is destined to be a classic of the nineties and beyond.

Ethical porn for dicks

Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure

Our media is filled with confusing, polarizing messages about the dangers of porn, while at the same time sexually explicit images are pronounced in advertising and entertainment. Using a natural question/answer format for people feeling fear and shame about porn use, this accessible, funny, and well-informed book is the first one to offer men a nonjudgmental way to discover how to view and use pornography responsibly.

David J. Ley, PhD, is an internationally recognized expert on issues related to sexuality and mental health. He has authored two books, published in the Los Angeles Times and Playboy, and appeared on television with Anderson Cooper and Dr. Phil.  

Coping with Erectile Dysfunction: How to Regain Confidence and Enjoy Great Sex

There seem to be no end to the “authoritative” explanations and “guaranteed” easy treatments for erectile dysfunction (ED). Since the so-called Viagra revolution, conventional wisdom holds that the problem can be fixed simply by taking a pill. The truth of the matter is, though, that ED is often a complex condition affected by physical, psychological, and relationship issues—and it’s a problem shared by both a man and his partner. This book is the first ever to address this common problem using a comprehensive biological, psychological, and social approach. It offers a proven-effective program for regaining erectile function, building strong and intimate relationships, and having great sex. 

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life:

An essential exploration of why and how women’s sexuality works—based on groundbreaking research and brain science—that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy.

Researchers have spent the last decade trying to develop a “pink pill” for women to function like Viagra does for men. So where is it? Well, for reasons this book makes crystal clear, that pill will never be the answer—but as a result of the research that’s gone into it, scientists in the last few years have learned more about how women’s sexuality works than we ever thought possible, and Come as You Are explains it all. 

Sensate focus in sex therapy:

Sensate Focus in Sex Therapy: The Illustrated Manual is an illustrated manual that provides health professionals with specific information on the use of the structured touching opportunities used regularly by Sexologists to address their clients’ sexual difficulties (Sensate Focus 1) and enhance intimate relationships (Sensate Focus 2). This book is the only one to: vividly describe and illustrate the specific steps of, activities involved in, and positions associated with Sensate Focus; emphasize the purpose of Sensate Focus as a mindfulness-based practice; and distinguish between the purposes of Sensate Focus 1 and Sensate Focus 2.

These resources are intended as a compliment to therapy under the guidance of a trained sex therapist.


Contact us today to book a complimentary consultation with our Intake Coordinator to match you to the best therapist for your needs.

We provide erectile dysfunction (ED) counselling to all of Ontario, including Windsor, London, Guelph, Waterloo, Kitchener, Hamilton, Burlington, Oakville, Mississauga, Brampton, Toronto, Vaughan, Richmond Hill, Markham, Oshawa, Brockville, Kingston, Ottawa.



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